I thought it was time to have some fun. The saying, absence makes the heart grow fonder, has comforted me when I was separated from those I love. I wanted to believe the message as it supported my confidence that my tough time would end. I’d be stronger for it. I was aware of another…

I read this phrasing in a Facebook post. It caught my eye, but I didn’t understand what it meant at first glance. The past has value. I can learn from it, but I can’t change it. At some point in human history, things changed very slowly. The past, the present, and the future were pretty…

As a young lad about 10 years old, I remember taking a shortcut across a dirt parking lot. Something caught my eye, and I went over for a closer look. It was a skeleton key. I brushed off the dirt and held it for a few moments in the palm of my hand. I knew…

I dove into my list of Blog topics I keep adding to for this week’s Blog. I came across the topics of ageism, age discrimination, and implicit bias, which led me to an Implicit Association Test online at Harvard University. What could possibly go wrong? I’ll paraphrase one of the warnings: If you don’t like…

I was chatting with a new friend recently. We discussed a variety of topics, looking for common ground. Fortunately, we found it quickly in the details and the big-picture themes. She has a son starting his first year of university, which is a huge milestone for him and the family. My children are in their…

I came across this connection while watching TV. It flew by quickly, and I may have a few details wrong, but the essential connection was clearly remembered. It stuck with me. Let’s go back in time. There was a time when women were either not allowed or culturally prevented from entering bars. If women did…

I was flying to Toronto recently on Porter Airlines. The actual airline is important. It is a smaller airline. It isn’t new, but it is new to Western Canada. It feels as if I’m a member of a small club. There is only one centre aisle with just 2 seats on either side. I squeezed…

I know this sounds a bit risky, a gamble if I must say it in a word. But, let’s see where this leads us. Back in the day, I had a staff member who was applying for a position elsewhere in the organization. He kindly let me know in advance. A week or so later,…

I was listening to my wife do her daily crossword puzzle this morning. And no, that is not a mistake – I did really mean to say listen. Shouts of not fair, gotcha, who the heck would ever know that, or impossible! She said she wouldn’t have it any other way. She enjoys torturing herself….

I am sure many of you will know what this code is for. I was talking with a friend the other day, and he mentioned he was talking with an elderly couple. They were both in their late seventies. He asked her what the secret was to their loving relationship. She promptly replied, “It’s friends…